“Forgiveness is not always easy. At times, it feels more painful than the wound we suffered, to forgive the one that inflicted it. And yet, there is no peace without forgiveness.” — Marianne Williamson
Have you ever held a grudge against someone? I did and noticed it was keeping me pretty occupied—avoiding them, trying not to think about them, trying hard to pretend they didn’t hurt me. It was exhausting.
When we don’t forgive, we stay in the struggle. We are in bondage with anger, bitterness and resentment. When we don’t forgive, we find there is a wall that separates us from love and keeps us from moving forward.
Forgiveness is an opportunity to let go. Forgiveness puts an end to the illusion of separation. It takes courage to let go. And when we do, it is one of the most important processes that brings harmony to our life and peace to our soul. Forgiveness sets us free to express love into the world.
In “This Thing Called You,” Ernest Holmes writes, “It may seem strange that the law which now holds you in bondage can as easily give you freedom. But this is the truth.”
Who are you willing to forgive?
Affirmation: I am willing to forgive and allow love to be expressed in the world.
(excerpt from Soul Musings)
Thank you Christine for this writing and I am continuing my forgiveness journey. The distressful relationship I had with my father has melted away as I bring him back into my heart. Feeling lighter and stronger each day allows me to heal and reconnect the good memories while releasing the abuse. I have held my heart so closed around him. I didn’t even realize it until I began to forgive him. What a gift! As a little boy he suffered at the hands of unconscious adults and was acting out of his pain. So very grateful to find my dad again. I can feel my heart expanding when I think of him now.
So glad you are sharing Siul Mysinfs with all of us!