I was in class last week and make an off-handed political comment that I felt was harmless. The next day one of the class members called and shared her feelings about what I had said. I apologized and could completely relate because I had been offended when I was in the company of others with political differences and heard their hurtful comments. Really, I know better than that.
Later that day I recalled my previous blog post quoting President Obama quoting scripture…”it is time to set aside childish things.” I realized that remarks like that are the childish things…judgments, criticisms, ridicule, belittling, blame, etc. They do nothing to empower and everything to sap energy.
I received a powerful reminder this week of the power of the word. One I won’t forget soon.
I totally agree, it is difficult not to be thoughtless of someone’s feelings these days–but still we should strive to do it. Words can hurt as much or worse than actions and more people need to be aware of that. I am impressed at your humility. Thanks for sharing!
I hope you won’t be too hard on yourself. I have always known you to speak with love in your heart.